Posts Tagged ‘parenthood’


A friend of mine asked me last night how Liz and I knew we wanted kids. I know my wife has always wanted kids and prayed that she’d be able to. Of course, she wanted to be an elementary school teacher too, so she really loved kids. Myself, I don’t know that I knew I wanted kids so much as I knew I didn’t not want kids (yeah, how’s that for a confusing sentence full of negatives). I think that up until I met flutterbyefred, I was more concerned with the precursor step of actually meeting someone who was willing to go out with me. I think I’ve mentioned it before, but the birth of my daughter changed me in ways I cannot describe and wouldn’t have predicted. I’m considerably more protective of children, particularly babies. I used to be more pro-choice than I am now (not to say I’m exactly of the “pro-life” stance now, but more in that direction than before). When I read about the death of a young child, I cry inside. When it happens to a friend, I’m heart-broken (r.i.p. Sam).

On a totally different note, I’ll be very happy when the elections are over, regardless of the outcome. I’m quite tired of campaign ads. Especially for the Senate race in Minnesota. I feel sorry for the poor souls get to make a choice in that election, as I don’t feel I’d want to vote for either of the two major party candidates. I watched the presidential debate last night. I think it’s the first one I’ve ever watched. One particular question jumped out at me… the one regarding whether the running mate is qualified. Mr. McCain attacked Mr. Biden’s foreign policy stance … particularly on his suggestion that Iraq be divided into 3 separate countries. I think if Mr. McCain took a look at the history of that area, the track record for what it takes to keep regions of disparate beliefs like that together, and examine what’s really going on there, he might find the idea more plausible. It just might be that the only reason Iraq stayed together as a nation was because it had a ruthless leader.

Tired

on December 22, 2007 in Uncategorized No Comments »

Today started way too early (5:20). Was hoping to get a decent nap in today but had nappus interruptus after about 1/2 an hour …. and a power nap wasn’t going to cut it today. It’s now 11:15pm. The child has been very frustrating today. If tonight doesn’t go well, I’m probably going to be very groucny (even more so than I am now). Thank God that my work experience has given me a fair amount of patience.

Most of today and yesterday (a day off) was spent producing a DVD of our church Christmas program. Yesterday was editing, today was making DVDs … I had about 50 requests. While writing DVDs I poked at drupal a little bit as a possibility for the church website. Last year I spent Thanksgiving break re-writing the website because I wasn’t happy with any of the CMS packages that were available and I wanted other people to be able to contribute content. Now the site has been online that way a little over a year and I have yet to have another person post something. So much for that effort. So now I’m thinking it may be useful to have a forum, but I don’t want to write a module for one myself.

Work has been hectic. We’re gearing up to start moving off one of our major file servers to a new file system that’s WebDAV-based (Xythos Digital Locker). That will involve moving about 700GB worth of files for at least 7000 people. We’re running into deadline crunch time (needs to be completed by start of Spring term) so I haven’t been following up on the lower priority tasks that are part of the project.

Well, the daughter appears to be sleeping now so I’m going to go try and do the same.